My aunt, who is white married my uncle, they have been married about 30 years and she is a very beautiful and outgoing woman, so don’t make an assumption that only unatractive white woman go out with white guys. Or that white woman date Indian guys because they hate their own culture.

I am Indian, and I hate when Indian people think I am dating my bf, ML, (who is very attractive, smart, kind and has great values and whom I respect) because I hate my own culture or am a self-hating Indian or white washed. I have persoanlly had bad experiences with Indian guys, but I try not to believe that all Indian guys fit into this stereotype (eg: bascially come on too strong, I have had 3 stockers and also when they hit on me and I tell them I am not interested in them, they call me a slut, white washed, etc). However, it seems like a lot of the white woman on this website are dating or married to a lot of kind and great Indian guys that don’t act so agressive, congrats to you! I also know not all Indian guys are like, since I have a few Indian male friends, who are great guys.

Annways, one of my Asian male friend, T, who is Chinease made an assumption that I must be good at math because I am Asian (funny so is he). But the truth is I suck at math and that is one of the reasons why one of my majors is English and not Engineering like my white bf’s). Ironically my white bf is better at math than I am lol.

Also, living in Canada, I am an Indian woman, who dates. So not all Indian woman don’t date (I was born in Canada, so maybe I am little more western) and have slept with guys when I am in a long term, committed and loving relationship with them (my number isn’t high, fyi). I don’t consider myself a slut at all, nor would I ever cheat on a a guy.

This site is great, except for some rude people. I can’t wait for Question #4!

Cheers,
LF

Desi Girl

An update will be coming tomorrow, most likely.