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5:19 pm
August 11, 2010

cyborgus

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Hello,

I'm European woman permanently living in US, six months ago I met a south indian guy. We have started dating and with time it has been more and more serious. However I think it can never have a happy end. I'm 11 years older, divorced with 2 kids. He is single, coming from very traditional family. I don't know the cast system, but I know he represents the highest cast and he is a priest. So I really don't know what to think about that.

Is it a big issue to him to have a relationship like that?

He tried to show my daughter to his niece once as they are almost the same age, but it has been so disapproved by his family that he does not talk to them anymore he is dating me.

He would like to marry me and he does not hide that green card would make his life easier, however he also says he does not want to divorce me after he gets the permanent resident permit.

Honestly I'm very confused, from one side I like him, from the other side I'm really hesitant to develop any serious relationship as I have problems to believe it would work against so many obstacles. Can anyone ever heard about such unbelievable story? Can you please share your experiences with indians?

7:29 am
August 12, 2010

spongebob4real

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@cyborgus,

Divorce rate in India is very low aprox (1.1%) so more than likely he is not going to divorce you that is true. For the most part once the Indian husband gets married he devotes his life for wife and kids, so more than likely he could take good care of your kids as well. Now how far do you guys like each other is most important, most european or american women complain relationship is getting boring not much romance, so what you are looking at this point of your life is important. If you want settle down, would be a wise choice.

One weird thing about Indian they start loving there in laws after they are married. Romance and dating is not a routine part of life or not a way usually to find a partner. So my point is, do not waste time on convicing his family them that u guys love each other. Most of the post if you have read online about South East Asian getting married to American or european you will notice that there family are harding notified about there relationships or existance. Even if notified may be few weeks before marriage. Most of my indian friends married to americans just introduced there gf on phone if there family is in India and then got married here went on vacation to India and since they are married as I said everybody welcomed them. In the end i would suggest just ask him what does he expect you to do? always take advice in going ahead in relationsip with his family, after all he know what goes best for his family. Wish u goodluck

Thanks

Spongebob :)

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